- One secret way to make him addicted to you is not so secret: Keep your distance and notice what he likes! Some men love independent women but others don’t! So it really depends on the guy you’re dating. If you have an independent man that likes his woman at home: keep your home a happy place! It’s a little traditional - but hey, that lifestyle is still for some peeps. If your man loves an independent woman - don’t worry about the house! Make him hire you a cleaning lady & cook if he can afford it - and go about your life as if he’s just an accessory and that you don’t really need him around.
Go as far as to ignore his texts every once in a while! If you are in a long term, secure relationship, you shouldn't feel the need to be on the phone every minute. This will put a lot of strain and pressure on the relationship and you will need a break every once in a while. Breaks are healthy, it’s very natural.
2. One way to keep him addicted to you is to travel solo without him and keep your hobbies to yourself. He doesn’t need to be involved in every aspect of your life. But this also doesn't mean ignoring him completely. Let him in every once in a while just for fun - invite him to one yoga class as an experiment, for example, but then remind him that you like doing things alone. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. You don’t need him around every minute, you will get bored of him as well.
Take a trip to visit your friend in another country, without him, for a week or two! You don’t need to be attached to the hip! He will be texting you so much if you do this! This will work like magic! He will be so intrigued as to why you would even want to travel without him! It is perfectly normal to take long breaks from your man, so do not feel like you are hurting the relationship by doing this. He will be so addicted to you after you do this! He will be interested in all the stories you have to tell him when you are back. And the sex is even better after a long break!
3. One way to keep him addicted to you, if he is a busy man, is to schedule dates if he’s busy! Make sure he doesn’t completely forget about you. Men can get very caught up and side tracked by work. To them, going an entire week without speaking to you is perfectly fine in their eyes, so you might have to put in a little bit more work to get this type of man’s attention, especially if your man is Type A. You will need to combine a few of these secret ways to get his attention and make sure he takes a break from his work. Do not be a door mat and wait for this type of guy, definitely stick around if he shows you he really cares and truly apologizes each time you are unable to hang out.
4 One way to keep him addicted to you is to be spontaneous. Plan a weekend getaway with him or a staycation! Switching things up spatially and environmentally is great for both of your mental appetites, if you satisfy them then you allow for more space for sexuality to roam. Doing mundane things can get very boring, especially for a man. Men need excitement and challenge - but make sure it is always within your realm of comfort. He will be so addicted to you if you do this every once in a while, especially if he has a group of friends he likes to brag about you to. He will definitely brag about this to his friends.
Also, switching up the scenery is so romantic and refreshing. It will put a new twist on the relationship. Experiencing new things together will strengthen your relationship because you will have even more events to reminisce about in the future. You will also bring exciting stories with you on family and friend dinners and get togethers. So it will benefit not only your relationship, but your social status as well.
5. One way to keep him addicted to you is to find out what fragrance he likes and wear it on special occasions only! If you wear this fragrance every day he may just get used to it, but if you wear it only once in a while, especially a musk-type scent, he will be more aroused when you wear it only so often. He will crave the scent more if you only wear it once in a while. And when you do finally wear it, he will feel like you are rewarding him. He will be so incredibly addicted to you if you do this! He will text you when you aren’t around more often and his energy will change. Fragrance also helps to stir up new energy in your space, so don’t be afraid to switch up your fragrance often, you do not have to wear the same exact fragrance. I believe that having a signature fragrance is outdated. You do not want to smell like your mom! And constantly evolving and changing cultivates a sexy mindset which then in turn will make him so addicted to you.
6. Dress up super sexy at dinner time for no reason and ignore him a bit ;) be sassy - add some attitude - no need to be sweet. Put on full hair and makeup for no reason. Put on some music and maybe even run the bath after dinner with some rose petals.
Especially if you have kids - you need to make it work for the both of you. Push yourself to do these things so you don’t get trapped in the day to day and forget both your sexual needs. You also want to remind your man that you are more than just a mom. There are so many layers to being a woman - a mom, a lover, a companion. You need to literally dress the part sometimes. Do not wear the same clothes that you wear when you are taking care of your child. This will subliminally switch the mindset of your man. He also needs to still view you as a sexual being, not just a mom. So being very well put together and beautiful will remind him of the beginning stages of your relationship when it was easy and flawless. It will remind him of the things he loved about you in the beginning and he will be even more addicted to you.
A sexy dinner also arouses a new type of energy in a relationship. It is such a nice change from your average office outfits and casual outfits. It reminds you that it is good to reward yourself every once in a while.
7 One secret way to make him addicted to you is to walk around the house in your underwear - on occasion - schedule it for the weekends, and as always, don’t do it too often. It is better to be spontaneous. Walking around in your underwear, or even naked, represents freedom and airiness. If you constantly evoke these traits he will be more drawn and addicted to you. Men are addicted to women who are free spirits, because women tend to have those traits more than men. Men are generally drawn to their opposites. If you are a working woman, this is also a really great way to keep him addicted to you. Sometimes corporate environments can put a drain on your style and flow , so letting loose and letting your body be itself will help men be more drawn and addicted to you.
8. One secret way to make him addicted to you is to keep him challenged. Push him to do better if it will also benefit you! If your man is not a workaholic and doesn’t know his way politically around the office as well as you, don’t be shy to share your secrets, especially if he is a type B male. Type B’s need and appreciate the extra push. It’s not that they aren’t capable of doing it themselves, but some people need others to see their potential and encourage it in order for them to want to grow and flourish.
9. One secret way to make him addicted to you is to ask for things - a lot! Don’t let him know it’s just ok to just be around. Remember you are a prize and he has to impress you more than you have to impress him. Asking for things is very traditional, and this isn't for everyone. But if you are in a more traditional relationship, your man may simply feel more like a man if you ask him to buy you something, and usually for no reason. Be cute about it! Beg, wink, whimper, all those fabulous girl ways you have of charming your man to doing what you need.
10. One secret way to make him addicted to you is to be ridiculous - ask him to take you on a trip! And I don’t mean just any trip - the trip of your dreams! Whether that be a two week getaway to Europe, or to the Middle East or to Asia. Make it happen! He will appreciate it and will view you as adventurous. Adventurous people are captivating and intoxicating. He will be even more addicted to you after this.
11. One secret way to make him addicted to you is to wear a wig! Your man will like the switch up! If he thinks it is weird, make sure he knows it is just for fun. Switching up a wig will make him look at you differently, and the goal is to make his work like magic. The wig in a way is magic - it will trick him into thinking you are another type of girl, and most men love all types of girls, so make sure he finds what he wants in you so that he doesn’t stray or go elsewhere.
12. One secret way to make him addicted to you is to change your real hair color once in a while! Natural is so fun as well. Men love pulling on real hair, so definitely go natural every once in a while as opposed to extensions or wigs. Dying your hair a drastically different color is highly recommended - switch from dark brown to platinum blonde or vise versa, from platinum blond to a chocolate sexy brown. Again, different hair color is stereotypically associated with a different personality. So the point of switching up your hair color is so that he views you differently. This will magically make him addicted to you . He will be texting you as if your relationship is brand new again.
13. One secret way to make him addicted to you is, wait, most importantly: stay true to yourself. If none of these guidelines appeal to you - wipe the slate and do whatever you feel! If you are a sweet girl most of the time, be sweet most of the time. But definitely never ever allow a man to walk all over you, or anyone for that matter! No one should ever treat any human with disrespect, which you probably already know, but just a friendly reminder.
14. One way to make him addicted to you is to give him really great sex, only once in a while. This is definitely one magic trick every girl needs to keep up her sleeves. If you want, you could text him the night before hinting that you want to do something special, especially if your man is a workaholic and you need him to be ready as well.
15. One way to make him addicted to you is to be sweet most days, but when he is acting up - be aggressive back with him. Never allow a man to walk all over you, or anyone for that matter. There may be days when your man is in a bad mood, and you will need to put him in check! He will know that he needs it, and most men are really great about responding positively to aggressive behavior because you are meeting him half way. If he knows you can “man up” and put your foot down, he will respect you more. This isn't a gender issue, this is a human flaw. Most humans do not respect other humans that do not respect themselves. In a way, you are showing to him that you are inferior by allowing him to treat you a certain way.
16. One way to make him addicted to you is to make him an amazing meal - but only every once in a while! Don’t work too hard, kick your feet up most of the time, but then surprise him! Men love a warm cooked meal that reminds them of home. Since most people these days eat out often, eating at home is very comforting. Your man make need some comforting every once in a while so make sure you cook him something that reminds him of his moms cooking! He will adore you for it!
17. One way to make him addicted to you is to wear your hair down a lot around him. Most men love when a girl’s hair is down - it’s flirtatious! Flirting gives off great energy and lasts throughout the day. Try being very sexy in the morning, without actually having sex. Mimic the motions in your hair - flip your hair, and watch how many times your man texts you throughout the day! Since flirting gives off a great deal of energy, your man will want to give this energy back to you, so it’s beneficial for the both of you.
18. One way to make him addicted to you is to laugh often around him- and loudly! Laughs can be very addicting! Especially if you aren’t laughing every day. He will look forward to those strange moments when you give off a very loud, awkward, quirky laugh! It doesn't have to be sexy either - it can be different and associated with your personality.
19. One way to make him addicted to you is to buy him something special at random, not on a birthday or a holiday - but so random that it will be a total surprise! When preparing to do this, try to remember things he needs or wants. Or if he says something simple, like “I really need to fix my car this week”. Men do not mention to women that they wish they could have someone take care of these things for them, but when you do it spontaneously, they will be so surprised and enamored that they will be even more addicted to you! Don’t do this often because he will become accustomed to it and will not appreciate it as much. This trick also works for making him do things for you in return.
20. One final and most important secret to make him addicted to you is by being independent and really owning your success and work life! Like I said in the beginning, keep your distance! If your man is secure enough to be left alone, he will find you so sexy and intriguing for carving your own path and not asking him for help. It will be a nice release of pressure on him as well. Most men feel a lot of pressure all the time for being the “man of the house”. So give him a break! Be the CEO your parents always wanted you to marry!
Being an independent woman is more rare than an independent man. For some men this is a turn off so make sure you are with a man that is supportive and loves you for what you are doing. If you are the type of person that would rather save your relationship than save your work life, than this way is not for you. This is for the die hard women that will only live a life for herself and the man comes second.
Posts
0 comments:
Post a Comment